Over the last several years, it seems that there has been more attention to the relational aspects of the Christian faith. There have always been some people writing about relationships, often the biblical counselors, but the focus has spread. More and more, Christian authors are recognizing that the Trinity is not simply incidental to Christianity, but essential--not just what is, but what must be, if God is love.
The Power of Together: Discover the Christian Life You've Been Missing (2016, Baker) by Jim Putman is a wonderful addition to this growing body of books. Putman is the pastor of Real Life Ministries in Post Falls, Idaho and has developed and promoted what he calls "relational discipleship". Matthew 28 reminds Christians that we are to go and make disciples and Putman (rightly) surmises that making disciples happens in relationship. On page 66, he wrote, "That's what discipleship looks like--learning to love in real relationships."
Perhaps what I most appreciated about the book is that Putman brings to it a balanced wisdom. He doesn't come from a naive perspective where every one simply holds hands and tolerates everyone else. He knows, from lived experience as a pastor, that relationships can be difficult. Difficult conversations can and must happen in order to continue to grow as disciples of Christ.
Putman is a churchman in the best sense of the word. He strongly advocates for engaging in a local church and staying in a local church even when things get tough, because they will. Churches are made up of messy, sinful people, yet they are God's plan for the world. If God is relational (He is) and love is expressed through relations with God and others (it is), then it happens in the church.
In sum, The Power of Together captures my hope for the church. I desire to see the church become more intentionally relational in the way that God has called us to. Putman's book helps us on the way.
I received a copy of this book from Baker Books in exchange for an honest review. The opinions presented here are my own.
28 June 2016
15 June 2016
Ortberg on Reviewing the Day with God
I found this gem in John Ortberg's excellent book The Life You've Always Wanted.
Reviewing the Day with God
Reviewing the Day with God
- [At the end of the day] Be still for a moment and quiet your mind.
- Acknowledge that Jesus is present. Invite him to teach you.
- Go back in your mind to when you first woke up. Watch that scene, as if on video. This may lead you to pray for patience, greater love, courage, forgiveness, or other virtues.
- Continue through the day, going from scene to scene. As you reflect on them, some scenes may fill you with gratitude, others with regret. Speak directly to the Lord about this. You may also be led to pray for some people you were interacting with during the day.
- End with a prayer of thanksgiving for God's mercy and love. Ask him to refresh you as you sleep.
13 June 2016
#Orlando: A wandering reflection
Most gun owners don't kill people,
Most Muslims don't either.
Most conservatives aren’t greedy,
Most liberals aren’t either.
Most homosexuals don’t hate those who are different,
Most Christians don’t either.
Some things on the Internet are false.
Perhaps many things.
Exercise wisdom and honesty
with what you share.
Ask yourself
Is it kind?
Is it true?
All people want to be known
and valued.
Gun owners
and Muslims,
Conservatives
and liberals,
Homosexuals
and Christians.
All people want to hear,
“You
matter.”
Let's tell them.
31 May 2016
A Traveller's Blessing
In his wonderful little book, To Bless the Space Between Us, priest and poet John O'Donohue shared this gem.
FOR THE TRAVELER
Every time
you leave home,
Another road
takes you
Into a world
you were never in.
New
strangers on other paths await.
New places
that have never seen you
Will startle
a little at your entry.
Old places
that you know well
Will pretend
nothing
Changed since
your last visit.
When you
travel, you find yourself
Alone in a
different way,
More attentive
now
To the self
you bring along,
Your more
subtle eye watching
You abroad;
and how what meets you
Touches that
part of the heart
That lies
low at home:
How you
unexpectedly attune
To the
timbre in some voice,
Opening a
conversation
You want to
take in
To where
your longing
Has pressed
hard enough
Inward, on
some unsaid dark,
To create a
crystal of insight
You could
not have known
You needed
To illuminate
Your way.
When you
travel,
A new
silence
Goes with
you,
And if you
listen,
You will
hear
What your
heart
Would love
to say.
A journey
can become a sacred thing:
Make sure,
before you go,
To take the
time
To bless
your going forth,
To free your
heart of ballast
So that the
compass of your soul
Might direct
you toward
The territories
of spirit
Where you
will discover
More of your
hidden life,
And the
urgencies
That deserve
to claim you.
May you
travel in an awakened way,
Gathered wisely
into your inner ground;
That you may
not waste the invitations
Which wait
along the way to transform you.
May you travel
safely, arrive refreshed,
And live
your time away to its fullest;
Return home
more enriched, and free
To balance
the gift of days which call you.
17 May 2016
Should Christians vote for Donald Trump? A response to Todd Starnes
A dear friend emailed this morning and asked my thoughts about an opinion article on Fox News by Todd Starnes entitled Should Christians vote for Donald Trump? On the counsel of another dear friend, I have intentionally backed off on my #NeverTrump rhetoric, though I still hold to that viewpoint--I've just not been as public about my opinions. In response to my friend's brief question this morning, I ended up writing a 1500+ word essay about Starnes's opinion piece and some of my current thoughts. For those interested, here's what I wrote, adapted slightly.
Thanks for linking to this article. My answer will probably be much longer
than you bargained for, but I had an hour to think on my way up to Rice Lake
this morning.
[Another friend] and I have had some long conversations over the issue of “never Trump”. About a week or two ago,
he and I spoke for over a half-hour about this issue. His primary concern was
that I was getting too focused on the #nevertrump idea. He was right and so I
have intentionally backed off on posting much stuff about Trump, though I do
keep up on what is happening politically.
I would also want to say that who we vote for isn’t a jar
one issue. Believers on different sides of this issue can be thoughtful and
perhaps come to different conclusions. It is not something I am willing to
divide with people over and, in confession, some of the things I have said
about it have been divisive.
So, to the article. I have many thoughts about it, which I
will try to communicate clearly, though I will also probably follow some rabbit
trails.
First, the article was posted on Fox News, which for several
months has been very pro-Trump. It is
not necessarily a bad thing for them to take a position, but I think it is
important to recognize that this pro-Trump piece is coming from what has seemingly become a pro-Trump
organization. The Drudge Report, another conservative bastion, has also been
very pro-Trump. On the other hand, several other conservative sources have been
generally opposed to Trump such as the Daily Wire, the Federalist or National Review. So, there are different opinions amongst
conservatives on whether or not casting a vote for Trump is a good idea.
Starnes stresses his concern that evangelicals
will stay home on election day. There will be some who stay home; there always
are. However, many of the people that I know that are #neverTrump still plan to
vote, certainly in elections other than the presidency (e.g., congress), but even
in the presidency but perhaps for a third party candidate. The author asks whether our only option is to
throw in the towel, and I don’t think that is what any of us would say that we
are doing. Citing Samuel Rodriguez, he wrote “it is silly to not talk of voting
for either candidate, every single Christian should vote.” Perhaps. I know some
Christians who would say that we don’t need to vote. I believe I should and so
I will, but I also don’t feel limited to voting for one of the two candidates
currently in the front running.
The author also cited Charles Spurgeon who famously said “of
two evils, choose none.” I think those are wise words from probably one of the
most respected gospel preachers in history. We need to pay attention to
Spurgeon’s idea here, even if we disagree with it.
Franklin Graham is cited in this article, who
also tells us to vote, reminding us to vote for the candidate who best supports
biblical values and then goes on to say, “in some races, you may need to hold
your nose and choose.” I wonder which
biblical values he is speaking of? A commitment to life? At best Trump has been
an inconsistent supporter of the pro-life movement. Building a wall to keep out
foreigners? That seems to be less grounded in a biblical worldview, at least as far as I
read it. Or targeting family members of terrorists. Also, from my vantage, not
really a gospel-centric value.
But what about biblical character? Is Graham concerned about
those biblical values or just the ones that fit the conservative-Republican
agenda? For me, character matters, even if it seemingly hasn’t to some conservative
commentators.
Interestingly, when he arrives at the question of “should
Christians vote for Trump?” he speaks of an “all star panel,” though the entire
panel is made up of those who are in support of voting for Trump. What about
Russell Moore? Or Charlie Sykes? Or Ben Sasse? When a person seeks to put together a panel
like this, it is unfair to stack the deck without any dissenting voices, in my
opinion.
I agree with Richard Land (one of the all-star panel) who
said that it is up to each Christian to decide who to vote for, but I disagree
that we cannot consider a third party vote. Will it be successful? Probably
not, but it will be a principled response.
Rodriguez said that he is voting “life, family ethos,
religious liberty, limited government.” I admit those are important issues, but
I don’t think that Trump has consistently supported them. For example, does Trump's support for religious liberty extend to Muslims or just Christians whom he is
trying to woo to his campaign.
Huckabee? Ugh. I have
been a fan of Mike Huckabee for a long time. I have a signed copy of one of
his books on my shelf at home. But…but. First, the choice to include him
on this panel when he is a “potential running mate” certainly is biased in
favor Trump. If he thinks he might be chosen as a potential running mate, why
would he speak against Trump? He wouldn’t. Huckabee described Trump as open to
dialog. I haven’t really seen it, frankly. I’ve seen him attack the character
of those who oppose him.
Further down in the article, the author asked this question,
“what’s a good Christian to do?” (Interesting question, choosing to include the
word good--who is good except God?). He then goes back to Graham who says “pray.” Indeed. Graham
indicated that part of their “decision America” campaign is not to support a
candidate, though earlier comments he made in this article would hint that he
means Trump. I agree with Franklin about the necessity of prayer, while I still disagree about
Trump.
Even though the author’s bias shines through the article,
the final two paragraphs are frankly uncalled for. He wrote, “Donald Trump
could walk the aisle at a Billy Graham crusade, while waving a King James Bible
and singing ‘amazing grace’ and it still wouldn’t be enough to convince the
holier than thou club.
“And for all you folks quoting Spurgeon—I would offer this
rebuttal: not to vote is to vote.”
This conclusion is simply unnecessary. To refer to
#neverTrump people as “holier than thou” is mean-spirited and does not help the
case he is trying to make. I told [our friend] recently that the best indicator of
future behavior is past behavior. Not only does Trump have a history of
concerning characterological and political viewpoints prior to the election,
many of them have continued through the campaign cycle.
Regarding the statement “not to vote is to vote”: I’m
getting tired of hearing it, frankly because it isn’t true. I understand what
the author (and anyone else who has said it) is trying to communicate, but
there is a difference between a principled decision to not vote and actually
casting a vote for Hillary. The phrase is offered to shame those who, like me, are choosing to abstain from voting for either one of them.
Romans 1:29-32 says, “They
were filled with all manner of unrighteousness, evil, covetousness, malice.
They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, maliciousness. They are gossips,
slanderers, haters of God, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil,
disobedient to parents, foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless. Though they
know God's righteous decree that those who practice such things deserve to die,
they not only do them but give approval to those who practice them.” As Christians,
I think we need to give heed to what Paul is saying here. Trump has shown
himself to be malicious, slandering, insolent, haughty, boastful, an inventor
of evil, and ruthless at least. I full admit that I have done these things and
more. But Paul is pretty strongly criticizing those who “give approval to those
who practice these things.” When we cast a vote affirming a candidate, we are giving approval, even if we say we are just choosing the
better of two evils (a point I am not convinced to be true). For me, I will not
be a party to that.
One of the statements that has repeatedly come up for those
who are planning to vote for Trump is to state that he isn’t perfect, but that
we are all sinners. I fully acknowledge the truth of that statement. Reluctant
Trump supporters also rightly point out that we will never elect a perfect
president. Again, I agree. But as I was driving today I was struck by this fact—I
am not comfortable casting my vote for someone I am not comfortable calling my
president. Although I disagreed with
Mitt Romney on a number of things in 2012, I was still comfortable enough to accept him
as my president, as the one who would represent me and my nation before the
world, that he earned my vote. I cannot say the same about Hillary and I cannot
say the same about Trump.
08 May 2016
To all of the women I've ever loved--A Mother's Day Reflection
Mother's day is a time to remember
a heart poured out,
a life lived for others
in service and nurturance.
This morning I was graced to visit with my mom
a woman of perseverance
and beauty
and strength.
Mom, I love you
and I love the way you love me
but also the way I see you love others.
Although I have but one mom
today reminds me also of the feminine beauty
I see in so many of you,
a beauty that is open and inviting
welcoming and nourishing.
So, to all of the women I have ever truly loved
or rather who have truly loved me
selflessly and graciously
whether you are 7 or 97
whether you have children, will have children,
have lost children, or will never have them:
I am so grateful for the ways in which
you have shown me the invitational beauty
and sustaining love of God.
My deepest appreciation and, to all of you,
a most sincere Happy Mother's Day
a heart poured out,
a life lived for others
in service and nurturance.
This morning I was graced to visit with my mom
a woman of perseverance
and beauty
and strength.
Mom, I love you
and I love the way you love me
but also the way I see you love others.
Although I have but one mom
today reminds me also of the feminine beauty
I see in so many of you,
a beauty that is open and inviting
welcoming and nourishing.
So, to all of the women I have ever truly loved
or rather who have truly loved me
selflessly and graciously
whether you are 7 or 97
whether you have children, will have children,
have lost children, or will never have them:
I am so grateful for the ways in which
you have shown me the invitational beauty
and sustaining love of God.
My deepest appreciation and, to all of you,
a most sincere Happy Mother's Day
07 May 2016
The Land is Extraordinary
Twelve Scouts (to Moses): We checked out the land, just as you’d instructed us to do, and here’s what we discovered: It is rich, very rich. One could say that it flows with milk and honey; and look, here is some of its fruit. The land is highly desirable, but
the people who already live there are really strong. Their cities are
enormous and fortified. What’s more, we saw the Anakites there. In
the Negev, there are Amalekites; and in the high hill country are
Hittites, Jebusites, and Amorites. As for the seacoast, Canaanites live
there and along the Jordan River too.-Numbers 13:27-29 (The Voice)
In Numbers 13, we learn that Moses sent scouts to search out the promised land. These twelve men went and learned about where God was sending them. When they came back, they told Moses and the rest of the Israelites, "the land is truly amazing. It is lush and beautiful and plentiful, but...BUT...the people who live there are really strong. They're huge." Caleb, one of the scouts said, "let's go! we should go in right away and take it over." The rest of the dejected scouts replied, "No way. We can't do it. The people who are already there are two strong for us." (13:31).
As the story continues in Numbers 14, we find that the Israelites are groaning and weeping. They are hopeless. They told Moses and one another, "it would be better if we were dead. It would be better if we just went back to Egypt." And again Joshua and Caleb responded and said, "the land is extraordinary! the best ever! Let's go."
As believers, we still do this, don't we? We see the beauty of the promises of God, yet we become more concerned that we can not overcome the strongholds. We look at the threats and think, "I might as well be dead. I might as well just go back to a life of misery."
Friends, though there are strongholds to overcome, let's go! The land is extraordinary!
06 May 2016
If I had a penny...
If I had a penny,
for every selfish thought;
all the copper in the world
would overflow my pot.
If I had a nickel,
for every angry word;
I could buy a house,
whose size you'd think absurd.
If I had a dime,
for every bad decision;
I could rule an empire,
much larger than you'd envision.
If I had a buck,
for every lustful notion;
the ink upon the paper,
could fill the largest ocean.
for every selfish thought;
all the copper in the world
would overflow my pot.
If I had a nickel,
for every angry word;
I could buy a house,
whose size you'd think absurd.
If I had a dime,
for every bad decision;
I could rule an empire,
much larger than you'd envision.
If I had a buck,
for every lustful notion;
the ink upon the paper,
could fill the largest ocean.
If I had a Savior,
for every heinous sin;
His blood alone's sufficient,
to set me right with Him.
05 May 2016
Book Review: Unparalleled
I ordered this book on Jared Wilson's reputation. I first read his book Your Jesus is Too Safe many years ago and was a fast fan. Since then, I have followed his blog and read nearly all of his books. Admittedly, I did not know what to expect apart from Wilson's record for quality.
But how to describe Unparalleled: How Christianity's Uniqueness Makes it Compelling (Baker, 2016)? As of now, it is the #1 new release in "comparative religion" on Amazon. Wilson also described it as an apologetics book. Yet, Unparalleled defies easy categorization. As I read it, my first thought was that it belongs in a class with books such as CS Lewis's Mere Christianity, Chuck Colson's The Faith, and NT Wright's Simply Christian in that it is an "apologetic" for the Christian faith. Wilson lays out why Christianity is unique and, therefore, compelling.
Weaving together his gospel-saturated prose, careful thinking, and honest narrative examples, Wilson draws us into Christianity's unique story. Specifically, he addresses God's relationality, the beautiful necessity of the Trinity, the sanctity of all human life, as well as the exclusiveness of Christ's life, death, and resurrection to name just a few topics.
This book is part theology, part apologetics, and part storytelling, but it is all Wilson and that is a very good thing. Though I would compare Unparalleled to other well-vetted Christian classics, this book is unique enough on its own to merit my emphatic recommendation to believers and non-believers alike. In a word, Unparalleled is...well..."unparalleled."
I was provided a review copy of this book from Baker Books in exchange for this review. I was not required to write a positive review of this book. The viewpoints presented here are my own.
But how to describe Unparalleled: How Christianity's Uniqueness Makes it Compelling (Baker, 2016)? As of now, it is the #1 new release in "comparative religion" on Amazon. Wilson also described it as an apologetics book. Yet, Unparalleled defies easy categorization. As I read it, my first thought was that it belongs in a class with books such as CS Lewis's Mere Christianity, Chuck Colson's The Faith, and NT Wright's Simply Christian in that it is an "apologetic" for the Christian faith. Wilson lays out why Christianity is unique and, therefore, compelling.
Weaving together his gospel-saturated prose, careful thinking, and honest narrative examples, Wilson draws us into Christianity's unique story. Specifically, he addresses God's relationality, the beautiful necessity of the Trinity, the sanctity of all human life, as well as the exclusiveness of Christ's life, death, and resurrection to name just a few topics.
This book is part theology, part apologetics, and part storytelling, but it is all Wilson and that is a very good thing. Though I would compare Unparalleled to other well-vetted Christian classics, this book is unique enough on its own to merit my emphatic recommendation to believers and non-believers alike. In a word, Unparalleled is...well..."unparalleled."
I was provided a review copy of this book from Baker Books in exchange for this review. I was not required to write a positive review of this book. The viewpoints presented here are my own.
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